My own journey. I had a lot of unprocessed trauma and kept making wild, erratic, impulsive decisions—chasing external happiness and validation. But nothing worked. Eventually, I hit rock bottom and decided to try something different. Instead of searching outward, I went inward.

I dove deep into self-discovery and realized I had completely skipped over the part about self-acceptance. I was living in toxic positivity, avoiding all of my negative emotions. What changed everything for me was realizing one powerful truth: we have no bad parts. When you learn to understand your parts instead of reject them, you finally learn how to love them—and that’s what truly transforms your life.

It honestly felt like I discovered a cheat code for life… and I couldn’t keep it to myself. That’s how I started coaching.

Losing the man I was going to marry in Afghanistan at the age of 23 was a defining moment that changed the entire trajectory of my life. I had no idea how to process the grief, so I buried it and kept moving—telling myself I was fine, staying busy, and doing everything I could to hold it all together.

But the pain didn’t go away. I carried that unprocessed trauma into a marriage, not realizing how deeply it was shaping the way I showed up. I became someone who prioritized everyone else’s emotions, avoided confrontation, and constantly sought validation—because I was terrified of being left again.

The real shift came when I finally stopped running from the pain and started facing it. I had to feel what I never gave myself permission to feel. I had to meet myself in the grief, in the fear, in the silence—and from there, I began to heal. Learning how to trust myself again, to create safety within, and to come home to who I really am...that changed everything.

I work best with people who are ready for serious change and are open-minded to different techniques. There’s something for everyone, and sometimes we get a little out of the box—but I swear, it just works. My clients are open to trust and growth, and they’re really ready to make changes—not just talk about them.

I work best with the people who are ready to actually understand themselves on an extremely deep level—which can be hard work sometimes. Emotionally, mentally, spiritually… even physically. But that’s where the transformation happens. When you’re willing to go there, you learn how to love yourself in the absolute best way possible.

As my team has grown, I’ve felt deeply called to work specifically with women. While we have incredible male coaches on the Create Your Fate Coaching team, my personal focus has shifted toward supporting women in stepping fully into their feminine divinity. It’s a sacred space—and so much healing, power, and transformation lives there.

I love working with ambitious women who want it all and are finally ready to start showing up for themselves the way they show up for everyone else. The truth is: you can have it all—but you can’t have both. You can’t become your true self and hold onto your old self at the same time. My ideal client is the woman who knows she’s meant for more… and is ready to let go of what no longer serves her to become who she truly is.

Truly—lives changed. Yes, I’ve seen clients experience massive material wins—10x business growth, launching new ventures, landing dream jobs, finding aligned romantic relationships—but the most powerful transformation is always internal.

The real results come from self-love, deep acceptance, and finally seeing themselves clearly. That’s what creates lasting change. I’ve watched clients break away from old identities, release patterns they thought would define them forever, and start living from an entirely new lens—the most authentic lens, rooted in who they really are. And from that space, all the external success becomes what it’s meant to be: the cherry on top.